Love Yourself First Spell
You cannot pour from an empty cup. This spell establishes self-love as primary, creating the foundation for healthy love of others.
In Lunary, spells are connected to lunar phases and chart awareness.
self-lovespellbeginner20 minutes
Purpose
Establishes deep self-love as the foundation for all other love
Optimal Timing
Ingredients
Pink candle1
Self-love energy
Rose quartz1
Heart healing
Mirror1
Self-reflection
Rose waterSmall amount
Self-anointing
Tools Needed
- Private space
Preparation Steps
- 1Release self-criticism
- 2Prepare to treat yourself with compassion
Ritual Steps
- 1Light pink candle before mirror
- 2Hold rose quartz to heart
- 3Look into your own eyes
- 4Say aloud: I love you, [your name]. I really love you.
- 5Repeat until you can say it without resistance
- 6Spritz rose water on face saying: I am worthy of love, especially my own
- 7List five things you appreciate about yourself
- 8Say: I love myself first. From this love, I love others.
- 9Carry rose quartz as self-love reminder
Correspondences
Crystals:
Safety & Ethics
- •Self-love is not selfish - its essential
- •Practice until the words feel true
- •Seek support for deep self-worth wounds
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People Also Ask
Establishes deep self-love as the foundation for all other love
The spell is here. The timing matters.
Moon phase, planetary day, your transits. See when this intention has support.
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